A paddle for playful and enthusiastic bondage play. Give the user an idea of what it feels like: This is a small but mighty toy that will provide varied sensations through gentle or intense use. The ouches may not be overwhelming, but you’re in control over how bad they can get, so choose wisely! To continue with our theme, you might try to gently sweep this XOXO-themed paddle back and forth along your partner’s thighs while softly whispering tempting phrases hinting at total submission before giving them what they want—a good spanking.